4 ways to ruin your own case.
Don’t blame your ex – you are going to ruin your own case
Yes yes yes. Not you. You may do exactly the same as a million angry men or women before you but you are going to ruin your own case.
Because you’re special. Your case is unique.
I mean…I KNOW there have been many before you who have decided they are going to take the Family Justice system who have been chewed and spat out.
But not you.
You may well have no contact at all but at least you told the judge like it was. And there was absolutely NOTHING he could say. That taught him! You may have a 91(14) barring order to stop you going back to court, a non molestation order that stops you contacting your ex, visiting your kids school and doctor. You’ve got a PIN and accepted a few cautions too.
But at least they all know you’re not playing THEIR game.
So – lets’ help.
What you’re going to ruin your own case
Social media. Post about what a b***h your ex is and your considered opinion about the CAFCASS officer. Or social worker. Or judge. Make sure you have pictures of your last night out with the boys and girls. And how weed should be legalised.
Make sure you tell everyone about your rights. How it is your right to see your kids. How it’s your rights to post whatever you like online about anyone at all (see above!) Mention the UN Convention of Human Rights at every opportunity.
Make sure you `have your say’ at every point. Your ex made 93 allegations against you? Go for it…you need to address each one in a 41 page rebuttal. Make sure the court knows that yeah – you DID give him/her a slap but that was only because he/she provoked you.
Pay for professional assistance and ignore every word you hear. Because your situation is unique – and your ex is the worst one in the world. He/she will say and do stuff that has NEVER happened before in the history of family law. Spend your time arguing with the person you’re paying cash and trying to convince them you’re right at every step of the way. Don’t worry about the judge reckons – he only makes the orders.
Don’t ruin it for yourself and your kids
We seldom provide promises round here. And we’re not providing one now – but if you want to do your best to snatch defeat out of the jaws of victory make sure you follow these tips.
You cannot control what your ex or the court does but you can control what you do. Take control of your own case and maximise your chances.
Call us on 01172 900274 or email us to find out how we can help you and stop you ruining your own case.