Will my ex stop me taking my kids abroad on holiday?
Holiday times are busy here at Family Law Assistance Towers. It’s up there with Christmas, Easter and any other occasion you really, really don’t want ruined.
It’s also a situation where there is a lot of disinformation and misunderstanding.
So to cut to the chase, here are a few truth bombs:
- It doesn’t matter if you or your ex has a Residence Order (or neither of you do) – if you have PR for your kids you can get a passport for them – you will need to provide the Passport Agency with a copy of your court order to do this. Make sure you do this way ahead of travel.
- If your ex has a Residence Order and you don’t you need his/her permission (it doesn’t have to be written permission mind) to take the kids abroad for up to 28 days.
- If there is a Shared Residence Order or no order at all made with regard to residence at all you can both take the kids abroad for up to 28 days without the other parent’s permission.
- You don’t have to give the other parent details of where you are going – but do it, OK? If you’re withholding it you’re liable to be seen as `sticking it to the ex’ rather than doing it for any child-focused reason. Flight details and the resort, etc. It’s a just normal courtesy.
- If your ex has the passports and refuses to hand them over organise mediation (if there is time) or make an application for a Specific Issues Order (if there isn’t) – completing a C100 form. Bear in mind with this one that delays in the court are especially pronounced around holiday time so make sure you organise all of this plenty of time ahead. You will get a hearing date after your holiday if you don’t get your skates on.
Hope this helps. Unless you have a court order that modifies or limits it, it is all about PR (Parental Responsibility). As I repeat ad nauseum it’s not really about Residence Orders despite everyone absolutely positively needing one to make sure the kids aren’t taken away.